I went to see Roger in hospital on Wednesday afternoon. He was very poorly indeed. In fact the worst I've ever seen him!
I returned home that evening with heavy heart. I got the phone call about 6.30pm. It was from the senior registrar on the chest ward. She told me that Roger has what's known as an empyema. A complication following pneumonia.
My medical dictionary gives the following description: "pus in the pleural cavity, usually secondary to infection in the lung or in the space below the diaphragm. It is a life threatening condition which can usually only be relieved by surgical drainage of the pus." She explained that they wanted to do just that, and they wanted to do it that night, and she was inviting me to come back in, so as to be near.
I rang Rob and Suze, who came tearing round to me. They hadn't eaten, so started to assemble a quick snack. Whilst that was happening, I had another call, this time from his GP to find out what was going on. I had hardly replaced the receiver when another call came from the hospital doctor. They had decided to wait until first thing the next morning. A) Because the patient before him was taking longer than expected and B)It was felt that it would be better to embark on it when everyone was fresh. In the meantime they had cross matched 4 units of blood, which he was about to be given. His haemoglobin count had sunk to 6. A normal male would have a count of around 12.something.
The next day was my birthday. The kids stayed with me and I went into the hospital feeling like a bit of chewed string. The thing I clung to was that nobody had telephoned in the night, so that was a positive! When I reached Roger's bed, he was sitting up, with a normal skin colour. The lights were on and somebody was home, as they say! He looked so well, I thought he must've already had the procedure, but no! It was all due to the blood they'd given him. He said he'd had a comfortable night.
Typical Rog, all he could do was apologise for not doing something for my birthday!!
We all went down with him to the department for his procedure. Then whilst he was in there(about 1hr.30mins) we went for a birthday lunch. I found myself suddenly hungry. Later he was back on the ward and everything went well, so we left him in peace.
I thought it was safe enough to pop out and see the latest George Clooney offering. Well! it was my birthday! Thankyou to everyone for the avalanche of birthday cards and flowers.
Suzanne
Saturday, 23 January 2010
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Hi Suzanne,
ReplyDeleteI have just been up to Glasgow as my old mum was in hospital again - it was thought she had a mini stroke but they could find no trace in the CT scan.
I haven't had a chance to dip in to the Bladderblog - so to speak. When i left all seemed to be well and Roger had been out for a walk even. It is certainly a rollercoaster ride for you all. Hopefully this is going to be a period of stability for him.
Please send our very best wishes to him and thank you for keeping us up to date.
Ailsa and Ian
xxx
Hello Suzanne
ReplyDeleteWhat a nightmare you have been going through!!!I have been in Coventry this week and so have popped into the blog just now-- cant believe it! Roger was going on ok the last time I logged on -- lets hope he is going to improve this time....
Your birthday too.... I hope you managed to enjoy it in some way Suzanne. Its mine on Friday and while I'm not celebrating it quite as I used to I'm sure it wont be anything like the difficulties you have endured
You take care Suzanne and love to Rog xxx